We all at some point or the other need that Special Someone to call us. We want a hug for comfort and a shoulder to cry on. We long for undying love, the real for better for worse kinda love. We desire to be accident and sickness free. We desire life here on earth to be nothing but paradise. And truth be told, we are so deserving of the very best life can sure give.

We do deserve good things. After all, we are good people. We care for family, neighbours, even stranded strangers. We do our best to love and be at peace with all men. We are the friendly, kind and selfless type.

We simply love life. But, funny how life is, it kinda bring somethings our way that rocks our world.

O! How beautiful a world it was before it was time to get married and couldn't just find that right person. Or, was it the bliss of finding a partner, getting married and the womb resists to carry babies. Or, the loss of a job, the disease that almost took a life, or worst still the loss of a dear one.

Basically, what we call life can sometimes be 'tipped to a rocky and unsure path' of which we know not how to handle. And, while we might have the support of loved ones to get us back to our feet, of course their support is priceless BUT, nothing beats you speaking to your inner man, encouraging yourself from within. Telling yourself to get up. Convincing yourself that you can do this. Nothing beats being healed from within, dusting and patting yourself on the back. Cry if you may, go for counselling, de-stress, dance, sing and cry again.

But, release yourself from any depression, any stagnation, any anxiety and just give yourself that 'PICK-ME-UP' which will then give birth to a better, stronger and more courageous you. (You still deserve that beautiful life, all this is, is a phase, albeit a tough one and it will pass)

Thanks for reading. Please do leave a comment as we all are learning.

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Do you know the gifts your child(en) has come to bless you with? Each child comes with a truck load of blessings for whatever family they are 'assigned' to be a part of. I know as parents, we approach parenthood from the mindset that (WE must do this, WE have to do that and it is OUR responsibility to nurture our children). Yep! I agree, all of these couldn't be anything but the truth. But, I also know for a fact and as a mother of three wonderful children (well,they are absolutely wonderful when I'm not pulling my hair out tehehehe!) Yeah! I do know for a fact that children will teach you how strong you are as well as open your eyes to many of your weaknesses. Children will also let you touch base with reality. They will make you live your dream, bring the best out of you, give you an 'I Can Do IT' attitude whilst they can't guarantee you won't loose your mind because of them. Yes, I understand the many unbelievable things that may have occurred during this journey (still many to come) - is it the loss of swag along the way, doing school run with PJs, Forgetting a bath, Driving off for a Doctor's appointment and realising you forgot something important (oopps! Your bra.) Or, worst of it all - bailing a child from prison. Each child is different and so is what they've come to bless you with but allow them to give you the gift of hope, serenity, love, accomplishment and many more as you create the atmosphere, the listening ears and all of what it will take to enjoy the fullness of Parenthood. Thank you for reading, please share your thoughts remember we all are learning. Thanks (Pic shows two of mine)