I do have a worry, well, I believe it's one that affects all of us.

School Bullying, as you know is every Parents' nightmare. We all want our children to be in a safe environment. And, while schools are meant to be one of a child's safest places to be, we have come to shockingly learn over the years that isn't the case due to report and first-hand experiences by many families.

So, what do you think is the problem?

1. Is the school not doing enough?

2. Are Parents slacking?

3. Are children just being children, of which I don't want to believe.

Bullying manifests its ugliness in different forms -

•Teasing to Violence

•Name calling to hair pulling

•Missing school to suicide

And the list is endless. So you see why it's such a big worry.

Now, my main question of today is, how do you as a Parent, tackle the issue of bullying?

Has your child been bullied before?

Have they been wrongfully accused?

Is your child the Bully?

Or are you one of those that will never accept your child bullies while in truth he really is a Bully?

Like seriously, I have heard of stories where parents fight each other over the issue - A case of 'tell your child to stay off mine.'

Children have had to change schools. Some scarred heavily up till adulthood (I know this for a fact through a friend of mine, who was traumatised for a long time)

I'd really like to hear your views by leaving a comment below. What has been your experience or how would you handle the situation if it knocks on your door or, how do you as a Parent raise a child that will not be either the victim or the culprit. Thanks - Bunmi Olabode

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You are who you are. Unique and beautiful in many ways than one.

Short, long, processed or natural hair - you still remain a Princess.

Be it the Retro Jeans from High Street London or the Bubu from Africa, you still are a Dream Girl.

Your skirt is laced with strength and your Power Heels make a great statement.

Even on barefoot, you go far and beyond. Though, the wind blows a storm, you climb and soar high, selflessly educating the next generation.

With a Raffia Basket on your head or a Leather Brief Case across your shoulder, the world is glad you are in it because you carry yourself with much grace.

Your flawless skin and bright smile compliments your lightly powdered face.

You have class and style.

You are powerful and strong.

May the very sole of your feet carry you to a place called BEAUTIFUL - Your Destiny. By Bunmi Olabode

(Pic from Adams Apple)

We all at some point or the other need that Special Someone to call us. We want a hug for comfort and a shoulder to cry on. We long for undying love, the real for better for worse kinda love. We desire to be accident and sickness free. We desire life here on earth to be nothing but paradise. And truth be told, we are so deserving of the very best life can sure give.

We do deserve good things. After all, we are good people. We care for family, neighbours, even stranded strangers. We do our best to love and be at peace with all men. We are the friendly, kind and selfless type.

We simply love life. But, funny how life is, it kinda bring somethings our way that rocks our world.

O! How beautiful a world it was before it was time to get married and couldn't just find that right person. Or, was it the bliss of finding a partner, getting married and the womb resists to carry babies. Or, the loss of a job, the disease that almost took a life, or worst still the loss of a dear one.

Basically, what we call life can sometimes be 'tipped to a rocky and unsure path' of which we know not how to handle. And, while we might have the support of loved ones to get us back to our feet, of course their support is priceless BUT, nothing beats you speaking to your inner man, encouraging yourself from within. Telling yourself to get up. Convincing yourself that you can do this. Nothing beats being healed from within, dusting and patting yourself on the back. Cry if you may, go for counselling, de-stress, dance, sing and cry again.

But, release yourself from any depression, any stagnation, any anxiety and just give yourself that 'PICK-ME-UP' which will then give birth to a better, stronger and more courageous you. (You still deserve that beautiful life, all this is, is a phase, albeit a tough one and it will pass)

Thanks for reading. Please do leave a comment as we all are learning.

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Do you know the gifts your child(en) has come to bless you with? Each child comes with a truck load of blessings for whatever family they are 'assigned' to be a part of. I know as parents, we approach parenthood from the mindset that (WE must do this, WE have to do that and it is OUR responsibility to nurture our children). Yep! I agree, all of these couldn't be anything but the truth. But, I also know for a fact and as a mother of three wonderful children (well,they are absolutely wonderful when I'm not pulling my hair out tehehehe!) Yeah! I do know for a fact that children will teach you how strong you are as well as open your eyes to many of your weaknesses. Children will also let you touch base with reality. They will make you live your dream, bring the best out of you, give you an 'I Can Do IT' attitude whilst they can't guarantee you won't loose your mind because of them. Yes, I understand the many unbelievable things that may have occurred during this journey (still many to come) - is it the loss of swag along the way, doing school run with PJs, Forgetting a bath, Driving off for a Doctor's appointment and realising you forgot something important (oopps! Your bra.) Or, worst of it all - bailing a child from prison. Each child is different and so is what they've come to bless you with but allow them to give you the gift of hope, serenity, love, accomplishment and many more as you create the atmosphere, the listening ears and all of what it will take to enjoy the fullness of Parenthood. Thank you for reading, please share your thoughts remember we all are learning. Thanks (Pic shows two of mine)